The time to Sacrifice ourselves for love is over. We have rationalized and romanticized personal sacrifice as the way to be worthy of love. However love is the one thing we need not earn or be worthy of, so does it reason that love requires a sacrifice as a test of worthiness or are we ready to consider that the test is in reverse? What if the most generous thing we can do for others is be selfish? We are going to challenge some of our mythology of love and worthiness including the stories we have been told and some of the stories we hold most dear, so we may at last get on with being who we were meant to be and open to receive the love we have been chasing.